The Retreat Experience

2019 Summer Retreat: June 7 – 10 – SOLD OUT

2019 Fall Retreat: October 4 – 7, 2019 SOLD OUT

2020 Feb. 14 – 17 (Registration Open)

Our program is designed to create a positive momentum for healing and leave you feeling empowered and renewed. We are taking names down for our next retreat in June in Upstate New York. The next retreat starts on Friday Feb. 14th at 12 noon and ends Monday, Feb. 17th at 11AM.

We are moving our next retreat to California to a 120-acre property in nature in Mendocino (closest airport is San Francisco or Santa Rosa).

When you arrive, we ask that you fully commit to your journey by digitally unplugging. This retreat will have a maximum of 20 guests so that we can keep an intimate atmosphere that feels safe, calm and supportive. A psychologist will lead sessions on how we can detach and let go of the past that no longer serves us. Renew’s Chief Heart Hacker will explore the science of attraction and and how we can start rewiring our patterns to create healthy love. A professional dominatrix will deep dive into the psychology of power dynamics and sexuality. There will be yoga and mediation sessions, and a tantra expert will show you how to connect to your body and harness your feminine energy. There will also be private, one-on-one sessions with either an energy healer or a relationship coach available. Meals are cooked by an on-site chef using organic and local ingredients. We can accommodate dietary restrictions.

If you want different relationship outcomes but keep showing up with the same patterns and energy, you will only get the exact same results. We will help you explore the source of your wounds (usually that stems beyond your last ex) so that you can rewire patterns and old scripts that no longer serve you. We will focus on building a strong foundation of self-compassion, confidence and love so you can step into your personal power and create the healthy love you deserve.

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Accommodations in a 120- acre estate surrounded by nature in Mendocino, California

3 nutritious meals a day will be cooked daily by an on-site private chef using organic and local ingredients

Various sessions led by Chief Heart Hacker, Amy Chan and other industry experts to help you clear old patterns, process emotions and help you open up for healthy love

A professional dominatrix with a PhD in education from UC Berkeley will guide sessions on the psychology of power dynamics. She will teach you how to ‘channel your inner Domme’ so you can live, love and connect from a place of power.

A leading tantra expert will be providing a workshop on energy movement and connecting to your feminine energy

Meditation and yoga sessions

Various exercises throughout the weekend to give you the tools to emotionally regulate, self-soothe and rewire the heart

Post-retreat community support which includes a 30-day online course, private chat group and access to Renew alumni events

Surprises. Because we’re all about healthy doses of dopamine.


“The most helpful thing — beyond getting away — was hearing other people’s stories. It was different than talking to a girlfriend or family member. There was something about meeting a stranger who has dealt with the same thing I had that was incredibly comforting.” – Taylor, as interviewed in The Toronto Star 

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