The Retreat Experience

Next Retreat: September 21st Weekend

Our program is designed to create a positive momentum for healing and leave you feeling empowered and renewed. We are filling spots for the next retreat on Sept. 21 – Sept. 23. You will arrive on Friday at 12PM noon and depart Sunday at 4PM. Our retreat will be held at a luxury, private estate in Upstate New York.

When you arrive, we ask that you fully commit to your journey by digitally unplugging. You will then be immersed into a multi-day program that includes sessions led by the top psychologists, behavioral scientists, coaches, energy healers and meditation teachers. All meals are cooked by an on-site chef using organic and local ingredients.

Each retreat has under 20 people so that we can keep an intimate atmosphere that feels safe, calm and supportive. You will meet others who are also going through the same feelings and stages of mourning and detaching, and a psychologist with a PhD in behavior will lead sessions on how we can detach and let go of the past that no longer serves us. Renew’s Chief Heart Hacker will provide group talks on the psychology of our attractions and and how we can start rewiring our patterns to create healthy love. There will be yoga and mediation sessions, and a tantra expert will show you how to connect to your body and harness your feminine energy. A professional dominatrix with a PhD in human development will lead sessions on power dynamics and sexuality. There will also be private, one-on-one sessions with either an energy healer or a relationship coach available.

If you want different relationship outcomes but keep showing up with the same patterns and energy, you will only get the exact same results. We will help you explore the source of your wounds (usually that stems beyond your last ex) so that you can rewire patterns and old scripts that no longer serve you. We will focus on building a strong foundation of self-compassion, confidence and love so you can step into your personal power and create the healthy love you deserve.


Accommodations in a ranch surrounded by 17 acres of native landscaping, orchards, open fire pits, wildlife and wilderness.

Nutritious meals will be cooked daily by an on-site chef using organic and local ingredients

A psychologist with a PhD in behavior nutrition will be guiding discussions and practices to clear old patterns and help you open up for healthy love

A leading tantra expert will be providing a workshop on energy movement and connecting to your feminine energy

Meditation and yoga classes

Various exercises throughout the weekend to give you the tools to emotionally regulate, self-soothe and detach from the past

“The most helpful thing — beyond getting away — was hearing other people’s stories. It was different than talking to a girlfriend or family member. There was something about meeting a stranger who has dealt with the same thing I had that was incredibly comforting.” – Taylor, as interviewed in The Toronto Star 


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