Fall 2019 retreat – SOLD OUT
winter 2020 california: Feb 14–17
spring 2020 Retreat New York: May 1-4

Our program is designed to create a positive momentum for healing and leave you feeling empowered and renewed. We have a few spots remaining for the February 2020 retreat, which starts on Friday Feb. 14th at 12 noon and ends Monday, Feb. 17th at 11AM.

Our February 2020 retreat is held at 120-acre property in Mendocino, California. Our May 2020 retreat is held at a 100-acre private estate in Upstate New York.

When you arrive, we ask that you fully commit to your journey by digitally unplugging. This retreat will have a maximum of 20 guests so that we can keep an intimate atmosphere that feels safe, calm and supportive. A psychologist will lead sessions on how we can detach and let go of the past that no longer serves us. Renew’s Chief Heart Hacker will explore the science of attraction and and how we can start rewiring our patterns to create healthy love. A professional dominatrix will deep dive into the psychology of power dynamics and sexuality. Various experts will be leading workshops that integrate various healing modalities. There will also be private, one-on-one sessions offered. Meals are cooked by an on-site chef using organic and local ingredients.

If you want different relationship outcomes but keep showing up with the same patterns and energy, you will only get the exact same results. We will help you explore the source of your wounds (usually that stems beyond your last ex) so that you can rewire patterns and old scripts that no longer serve you. We will focus on building a strong foundation of self-compassion, confidence and love so you can step into your personal power and create the healthy love you deserve.

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Accommodations in a 100- acre property surrounded by nature

Nutritious meals will be cooked daily by an on-site, private chef using organic and local ingredients

A psychologist will be guiding discussions and practices to clear old patterns and help you open up for healthy love

A professional dominatrix with a PhD in education from UC Berkeley will guide a session on unlocking the application of power dynamics. She will teach you how to ‘channel your inner Domme’ so you can live, love and connect from a place of power.

A leading sexual empowerment educator will be providing a workshop on reconnecting to your desire

Meditation and yoga classes

Various workshops led by experts throughout the weekend to give you the tools to emotionally regulate, self-soothe and rewire the heart

Post-retreat community support which includes a 30-day online course and a private chat group

Surprises. Because we’re all about healthy doses of dopamine.

“The most helpful thing — beyond getting away — was hearing other people’s stories. It was different than talking to a girlfriend or family member. There was something about meeting a stranger who has dealt with the same thing I had that was incredibly comforting.”  

– Taylor, as interviewed in The Toronto Star

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