3 Day, Live Interactive Event

Going through a breakup? Anxious in love? Sick of being single? At the Virtual Breakup Bootcamp you’ll learn how to transform heartbreak into healing and shift subconscious patterns. Whether you’re divorced or dating, single or separated, this is a program for anyone serious about creating change and healthy love.

We’ve helped hundreds of people get over heartbreak and start their next chapter, renewed.

90% of participants reported that Renew Breakup Bootcamp made a “significant impact on their healing process” and “increased levels of optimism, confidence and self-love”

This is a proven system to transform heartbreak into healing and start your next chapter, renewed. Now, you can experience Breakup Bootcamp in the comfort of your own home.

In this Virtual Breakup Bootcamp, you’ll experience three transformational days that will help you heal from past heartache, build a new foundation and move forward to create healthy love.

You’ll learn all the tried-and-tested tools taught by Amy and the world’s top relationship experts – from psychologists, relationship coaches, sex educators and more.

In this bootcamp, you will:

Let go of the past, regulate emotions and reframe your story. Move forward.

Rewire the subconscious patterns that have been holding you back.

Leverage tried and tested tools to build confidence, empowerment and self love

February 2021

Friday Feb. 19 – Sunday, Feb. 21

The Virtual Breakup Bootcamp has limited spots as we are keeping it to an intimate group of women. Bootcamp includes an extra follow up session on Feb. 28. We will be using Zoom video conferencing – a free online meeting platform for the event.

  • Friday, Feb. 19: 2:00PM – 6:00PM ET & 9PM Optional Fireside Chat
  • Saturday, Feb. 20: 12PM – 5PM ET & 9PM Ceremony
  • Sunday, Feb. 21: 12PM – 5PM ET & 9PM Optional Fireside Chat
  • Sunday, Feb. 28 – 12PM – 1:00PM ET – 9PM Optional Group Check In


Life-changing and backed by sound scientific research, the Virtual Breakup Bootcamp will help you change your patterns so that you will change your relationship outcomes. Sessions include:

  • Chief Heart Hacker Amy Chan will deep dive into the psychology of attachment, and provide practical tools to love and relate in a healthy way
  • Dr. Asha Bauer, PH. D. will help you change your subconscious beliefs and patterns
  • Dr. Erica Matluck will guide you through breathwork and embodiment exercises to help you move blocked energy and stored trauma.
  • Colette Pervette, PH.D. will teach you about the psychology of power dynamics so you relate from a place of empowerment and free of shame.
  • Sensual Energy Coach Devi Maisha will lead a session on releasing shame around sex and teach you how to tap into sensual energy alchemy.
  • Anxiety Coach Trish Barillas will teach you tried and tested tools to hack your angst and calm your nerves
  • Love Coach Nicole Boyar will teach you how to break your addiction to your ex and connect from a place of wholeness versus a place of wounding

Invest in yourself

Time doesn’t heal all wounds, doing the work does. You can save years of suffering and repeating the same patterns by learning how to shift the beliefs and habits that block you from creating the love you want.

We are providing special pricing to help during these times and will offer a limited amount of tickets for $799. Once you register, we will reach out within 48 hours to provide additional information.

You can choose a package if you’d like to add on a private session with one of the Renew Coaches (Trish, Nicole, or Colette).

If you have been hit hard financially due to COVID-19, please contact us and we will work with you.

Virtual Breakup Bootcamp
Early Bird Ticket


Virtual Breakup Bootcamp Regular Price Ticket


Virtual Breakup Bootcamp Ticket Plus 1 Hour Coaching Session


By signing up you agree to the terms:

  • I understand this event is for women and non-binary assigned-female at birth participants
  • I understand that I am not allowed to record any part of this event and breach of this would be against copyright laws
  • I understand that this is non-refundable
  • I commit to showing up fully present for all three days

“I’m finally in a very beautiful, healthy, conscious partnership and I owe a lot of reverence to the lessons I learned at Renew. We started working on our love contract yesterday and it was a very safe and bonding experience. He loves the values checklist and it helped me confirm we’re compatible beyond chemistry! Thank you for being a guiding light. After all the tears, this has been SO worth it.”

Mercedes, Renew Alumni


<strong>Amy Chan - Chief Heart Hacker</strong>
Amy Chan – Chief Heart Hacker

Amy is the Founder of Renew. A relationship columnist for over a decade and Editor-in-Chief of Heart Hackers Club. Marie Claire calls her “A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw”. Her book, Breakup Bootcamp – The Science to Rewiring Your Heart, published by Harper Collins, will be released this year.

<strong>Dr. Asha Bauer, Psy. D</strong>
Dr. Asha Bauer, Psy. D

Dr. Asha Bauer is a licensed Psychologist (PsyD) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT) as well as a research psychologist for the National Center for Post-traumatic Stress Disorder. Using holistic Psychotherapy techniques, she will help Renew participants explore how mind-body awareness and intentional action can be catalysts for transformation in every aspect of our lives

<strong>Dr. Erica Matluck</strong>
Dr. Erica Matluck

Dr. Erica Matluck is a Naturopathic Doctor, Nurse Practitioner and holistic coach. With nearly 20 years of experience working in conventional and alternative medicine, Erica brings a truly holistic lens to health, addressing the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual obstacles to healing. She has a private practice in NYC and is the founder of Seven Senses, where she leads transformational experiences throughout the world.

<strong>Colette Pervette, Ph.D - Dominatrix</strong>
Colette Pervette, Ph.D – Dominatrix

Colette is an educatrix. She is a professional dominatrix, where she has been practicing the art of intimacy and power exchange for over 13 years. She holds a PhD in education from UC Berkeley, where her research focuses on conceptual change. Colette will guide a session on unlocking the application of power dynamics.

<strong>Trish Barillas - Anxiety Coach</strong>
Trish Barillas – Anxiety Coach

Trish has been a life coach for over a decade and a facilitator of positive change specializing in anxiety and breakups. She graduated from Hofstra University with a B.A. in Psychology and received her Life Coaching Master’s Certification at NYU. She is also the author of A Face of Anxiety – an autobiography of her journey living with anxiety disorder.

<strong>Devi Maisha - Sensual Energy Coach</strong>
Devi Maisha – Sensual Energy Coach

Devi Maisha specializes in helping people release their trauma and shame around sex, create better relationships, and transform their lives into abundance and ecstasy. She is a former certified personal trainer and nutrition coach who combines her knowledge and study in the areas of psychology, tantra, and sacred sexuality with her training in energy work to facilitate growth and healing for her clients. 

<strong>Nicole Boyar - Love Coach</strong>
Nicole Boyar – Love Coach

Nicole is a love coach who helps women identify and shift old patterns, move from love addicted to love connected, and have fun with healthy dating – cause love can be fun again! Mixing the spiritual and psychological, Nicole helps her clients live the life and love they deserve.

<strong>Lauren Harkness - Sex Therapist</strong>
Lauren Harkness – Sex Therapist

Lauren is a Sex Therapist and an Advanced Certified Tantra Educator with Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra, Orgasmic Meditation Instructor, trained in the D/s arts and shamanism with Om Rupani, and a Graduate of Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts, Mastery Graduate. She teaches Tantra, sensual alchemy and other modalities of personal growth.

Ready to renew?

A breakup is the shakeup you need to redirect your life. If you are committed to moving forward, take the next step. You don’t need to spend years suffering and repeating the same unhealthy relationship patterns. Our bootcamps have helped hundreds of women learn the tools to create a healthy foundation to start the next chapter, renewed. Join us.


Coming to renew was coming back to my heart.

I felt a fully physical transformation from the inside out. I was able to identify with other women who were carrying the same pain, emotions and stories, and felt so supported as I started the journey to release my past and heal from not only my breakup, but my inner childhood wounds.

I would recommend this program to anyone feeling lost inside their pain and desperate for answers. You will truly walk away transformed and awakened, having the skills to start the life you always wanted. – Dania, 27

All the facilitators were excellent.

Previously my thoughts & emotions around my breakup were on replay in my mind always going around and around. I would analyze my ex’s actions and question them about the situation. Once I
looked at the facts of what had happened and removed the emotion, things were much clearer. My emotions manage to cloud or hide behind the events of the situation. That was my big ah-ha moment.

Renew Bootcamp helped me to feel my feelings, sit with them, and thank them for showing up. I realized what was outstanding for me and what I need to work on my healing journey. – Kim, 61

Through this I now have amazing tools I can take with me and use in my everyday life.

I went into this experience with minimal expectations. I told myself if I get one thing out of it that would be a win. The reality – I got more out of it than I could have ever dreamed of! I will forever be
grateful for my experience. It took me awhile to write this testimonial because I honestly couldn’t find the right words to truly explain my experience – I still can’t!

That right there goes to show how powerful this has been for me. This retreat was just the start of my healing journey. Through this I now have amazing tools I can take with me and use in my everyday life. I loved how each facilitator told their story. How they each hit their own “rock bottom” and found their way our towards enlightenment. It gives me hope that if I take everything I learned and use the tools and
do the hard work that I too will make it to the other side. The space that is created for the group is so safe and comforting. I never felt uncomfortable or felt like I needed to hold back any thoughts or feelings. I saw such bravery with each and every woman in our group and that alone is something so special. I feel extremely blessed to have the privilege to be apart of something so magical!

It literally has changed my life and it’s only been a month since the retreat! I am beyond excited to see where my journey takes me 🙂

No matter what words I use they won’t even come close to how I feel about this experience. This was such an important moment of my life from the people I met to the lessons I learned. Amy, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating this retreat. Before I was walking through life with one eye open. Thank you for making me realize my worth and showing me what life can look like when both eyes are open. – Everly, 34

I loved the entire experience.

This was my second experience at Renew, what I loved the most about the first to the second is how much deeper it goes into the spiritual as that aligned with my own personal journey. I loved the
mix of science with the heart centered practices and work. Doing breathwork, breathing and to the meditation was just such a beautiful experience. I can only imagine how wonderful it would be in
person as I enjoyed it so much on zoom.
The main theme was tied into all of it, that it really is about starting your own inner healing journey. For me Renew was my kick off to getting onto that path of really getting into my heart center to
discover my inner light. My journey is about building and investing in my inner home that lives within. I am my own source of happiness. It’s about becoming aware of my mind and my story; always
going back to my heart center is where I really live my life at my fullest potential.
Thank you for the amazing experience & it’s just reinforced that healing is a JOURNEY and not a destination. Acceptance and being in the moment is the key to happiness. So grateful for Renew
and for all the teachers that showed up with so much heart and soul. – Puneet, 38

Renew helped me step into my healing, it opened me up, it gave me the tools I need to keep moving forward.

I can not even express the gratitude I feel towards Renew and everyone involved. At first I did not know how it could help me entirely, because I felt that I was a bit more ahead in the stages of healing when compared to some of the other women. I quickly learned that even though I may have known or experienced some of the things being spoken about, there was still so much I did not and how those things applied to me.

This bootcamp helped me get past the last hurdle I just could not on my own. Renew helped me identify my patterns and even those of my ex, it provided me with scientific and spiritual tools that helped me detach from the past. I learned that the hurdle was that I was still stuck in a relationship with her, despite not talking to her, or living with her anymore.

Renew helped me step into my healing, it opened me up, it gave me the tools I need to keep moving forward and provided me with finding the professionals that could provide the help and understanding I had been looking for and could not find in my city.

Thank you for all that you do, I can’t even imagine how awesome Renew would be in person, but I still felt the connection to everyone from my home and screen. You guys truly put an amazing program together and thank you for finding a way to do it online so we could get this information right away and not have to wait for the pandemic to be over. – Roberta, 41

Learning about love addiction and how to recover was powerful.

Renew gave me so many strategies on how to change negative patterns. I replaced them with my new found information immediately. – Amanda, 57

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