A Letter to Anyone Going Through Heartbreak

A Letter to Anyone Going Through Heartbreak

To you, Here we are, two strangers connected synchronistically through something we both have in common. Heartache. Feeling disappointed in love. Exhausted from the suffering. Where does one begin when the pain seems like it has permeated every single cell of your...
Sorry I’m Not Sorry

Sorry I’m Not Sorry

I learned at a very young age to prioritize being pleasant, polite and likable. I was raised in a traditional Chinese household, and the concept of “face”(miàn z) – one’s own sense of self image and prestige in social contexts, was a significant part of our culture....
7 Practical Steps to Heal After a Breakup

7 Practical Steps to Heal After a Breakup

How could I pull off this suicide? I was soaking in the bathtub trying to calm myself down after a panic attack, and strategically plotting the best way to kill myself without traumatizing the housekeeper who’d eventually find my body. This was rock bottom. This was...
Processing the Pain of Infidelity

Processing the Pain of Infidelity

This time last year, I was in Paris with the man I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with. I remember praying, saying thank you to the universe, for the relationship and love I had in my life. I trusted my partner and loved him with every ounce of my heart and...

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